Brenda Elaine Adams, born Brenda Elaine Stuck, known as "Meme" to her grandchildren. Brenda was born on October 1, 1948, in Moberly, Missouri. She fought a long battle with cancer, until she was called home at the age of 75 in her home in Sand Springs, Oklahoma, surrounded by family that loved her dearly.

Brenda worked for Case and Associates for many years as a housekeeper.  She enjoyed working in her home flower beds and being with her family.  Brenda was loved by all who knew her due to her sweet disposition and kind heart.  Brenda had a love for God and attended church for many years at Gospel Assembly in Owasso, Oklahoma and enjoyed many friendships with her church family.

Brenda was special to her family due to the relationships she cultivated with her children and grandchildren.  She was a caring person with a heart of gold.  Brenda was a good listener, an encourager, and enjoyed bringing family together for dinners, holidays, and activities.  Brenda enjoyed a life of faith and contentment.  In difficult times, she taught her children strength, faithfulness, love and sacrifice.  In her final season, she taught her children courage, acceptance of what will be, grace, and gratitude.  In life, Brenda was an amazing mother, grandmother, sister, daughter, wife, and friend.  A bright, beautiful spirit, a life well lived.  She leaves behind a lifetime of sweet memories shared and will be deeply missed by all.

Brenda was preceded in death by her husband, Raymond Adams; her father, Burl Stuck; and mother, Kathyrn Stuck of Sand Springs, OK. Brenda is survived by her twin brother, Wayne Stuck of Springfield, MO; sisters: Jo Anne Wheeler of Cairo, MO, Jeane Ferguson of Proctor, OK, Jeanette Brammer of Tulsa, OK, and bonus sister, Barbara Sharp of Moberly, MO; Daughters: Angela Musilla of Sand Springs, OK, Kim Kinzer of Tulsa, OK, and Mike and Natalie Adams of Broken Arrow, OK.  Brenda is also survived by grandchildren:  Whitney Chase and Myles Radford of Sand Springs, OK, Nathan Kinzer, and Kacie Kinzer of Tulsa, OK, Austin Adams of Broken Arrow, Alex Adams Seattle WA, and Gracie Adams Tulsa, OK; and extended family of cousins, nieces, and nephews in Moberly, MO.